tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5510488175843645235.post820520056973251115..comments2024-02-16T19:34:01.115-08:00Comments on The Balancing Act: Happy birthday dear friend - one more story ( Blog marathon post no. 4)soulsearchingdayshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14134397706403391346noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5510488175843645235.post-12838200271511240852016-07-10T21:37:53.266-07:002016-07-10T21:37:53.266-07:00Thanks lan for coming up with that positive though...Thanks lan for coming up with that positive thought, may be some day I can hope for a reunion ....<br />take caresoulsearchingdayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14134397706403391346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5510488175843645235.post-75174337682755042482016-07-08T21:31:39.008-07:002016-07-08T21:31:39.008-07:00friendships evolve as any other relationships do. ...friendships evolve as any other relationships do. You are such a good friend and it could be as Vincy said that your friend may not want any connections to a sad/bad memory. hopefully one day you guys will get together. i love how you have described it all without any ill will. awesome!lanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04363905658304872046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5510488175843645235.post-56563365740638263322016-07-01T23:05:08.776-07:002016-07-01T23:05:08.776-07:00This was a very emotional post for me to read beca...This was a very emotional post for me to read because I have gone through something similar in my life before. I can understand the pain, the anger, the resentment that you must be going through each and everyday. It is very difficult to go through life knowing that your 'soul sister' is no longer in touch with you. I am not sure why she has totally cut contact from you. At least, you have tried immensely to speak to her, meet her and try to build the friendship from the beginning. I am unable to understand why she is not trying even 1%. That is why life is so unpredictable. One day we have everything and then one day it vanishes into thin air. Do not worry. I am sure one day - whenever that may be - your friend will realize that you are a true friend who is more like a sister who really really loves you a lot and cherishes your friendship. Hope for the best and do let me know when it happens! Till then, cheer up and smile. You have a lot of fans like us who are here to listen and help you! :-)PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12231513900148399921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5510488175843645235.post-69893625578870187732016-06-30T21:19:38.812-07:002016-06-30T21:19:38.812-07:00Hi Rekha, Thanks for the hugs. I know how painful ...Hi Rekha, Thanks for the hugs. I know how painful it can be when the one whom you trust breaks it. Yes.. I am also hopeful may be one day everything will fall in place and I will get to hug and make up with my friend.<br />thanks for dropping by<br />take caresoulsearchingdayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14134397706403391346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5510488175843645235.post-76348209712006403172016-06-30T17:07:02.266-07:002016-06-30T17:07:02.266-07:00Di, I completely understand you having been throug...Di, I completely understand you having been through a similar relationship. In my case, I was informed by a common friend that my best friend was cooking up I'll stories about my character. Worst of all, I happened to see few of her emails to this common friend where she was bitching about me. I confronted. She denied. Though I can never get rid of all those, I still went ahead and met her at her current place of residence. But I guess, the relationship will never be the same again. I lost two good friends in one shot. I am sure you'll definitely get a chance to explain yourself and revive the friendship. But I don't think it will ever be the same again. Big tight hugs! Rekhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13233279907027595531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5510488175843645235.post-62331706549203300112016-06-30T04:29:09.776-07:002016-06-30T04:29:09.776-07:00Vincy, your comment made me tear up, yes I also ha...Vincy, your comment made me tear up, yes I also have thought so , may be this is what she wants and therefore I abandoned my reaching out journey. You do not know how much soothing it is to hear that I tried my level best, I was may be yearning to hear it that I have tried so much and then gave up feeling that this if this is what makes her happy, so shall it be. Thanks Vincy, and sincerely these are not hollow words from me.. I am really touched with this comment and thanks for that much needed hug. take care and thanks for being there...soulsearchingdayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14134397706403391346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5510488175843645235.post-83725483246200276472016-06-30T02:49:56.822-07:002016-06-30T02:49:56.822-07:00The most important thing is you seemed to have tri...The most important thing is you seemed to have tried your level best. keep her safe in your prayers as you are doing right now and one day, we all can hope, the storm clouds would clear and she may understand your circumstances too.<br /><br />just an afterthought, it could be a deliberate move of your friend to cut herself away from everything and everyone around the bad incident so she can cope in her life as well. we really do not know...and if she needs that as a solace, to live peacefully, you as a friend may have to oblige. <br /><br />The yearning in you makes me feel like reaching out with a hug. and here is a large hug sent your way :-)<br /><br />Leave it all to the almighty who sees through all of us. and you Take care. Vincyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05575941564548214423noreply@blogger.com