The sari pact.... (blogmarathon post no. 17)
Not long
ago there was a beautiful pact going on in Face Book called the’100 sari pact’
, I call it beautiful because I love Saris and love seeing beautiful, elegant
women adorned in beautiful, elegant saris. The problem is my love for sari is
very similar to my love for make up, well let me explain, I buy it, I treasure
it and I love seeing people wearing it and I really like gifting beautiful saris
to my near and dear ones but I seldom wear it. I have so many saris
piled up in my suitcases and almirah which I have not worn in years, I think
the last I wore a sari was in September last year for my cousins wedding,
well.. its going to be almost a year…
I wore a sari for the first
time in my life for my class X11 farewell, before that like any other girl I
had tried on my mother’s sari many times at home but had never worn any in
public, this was a classic 'pattu sari' in maroon and bottle green combination,
I was showered with compliments on that day, this sari is still present in my
treasure trove and I have hardly worn it again. I hardly wore saris to office
when I got a job, then when I got married, like any other girl I had a suitcase
full of saris and salwar kameez, the saris got out occasionally though the
salwar kameez were used regularly.
When my daughters were born
I had the excuse of not wearing it because I was hard pressed for time, because
they will cling to me and then I will pick them up and I will not be able
manage my sari again if by chance it’s pallu gets undone etc. etc. so for a
good number of years I did not wear saris at all except for a marriage function
or a temple visit in Kerala where salwar kameez were not allowed.
By the time I realized that
it’s been so many years since I had worn my saris a good amount of time had passed
and it took me longer to wear a sari and it irritated me to no end if
I did not get it right at the first attempt. Now nothing of this
sort stopped me from shopping for saris for marriages, or just like that but
they all languished in my almirah or I would give it away to my mother or my
mother in law .
When I saw the ‘100 sari
pact’ by some gorgeous ladies who wore the chiffon, the Georgette , the
pochampally, the kantha work etc. etc. I was so tempted to wear one myself,
I was really inspired by them, they were all women with careers, children
and home to look after but they never gave any excuse and happily took out time
to adorn one of the most beautiful attire a woman can ask for and which looks
invariably beautiful on every woman , of every colour and age.
I really regret not having
worn saris regularly, infact there had been years where I never wore a sari
even once a year . Once I finish off the blog marathon successfully I am
thinking of taking up the ' sari pact' , I think my beautiful saris deserve
it.
I am linking this with the
blog marathon because here I am challenging myself to do something
which I had almost stopped doing, that is blogging ,and now here I am writing a
post almost every single day and on some days even two posts, so I hope
to continue challenging my self some more by way of this 'Sari
pact'.
I am planning to wear
a sari at least once every week to start with, that would amount to
wearing sari 4 times a month. What do you say…do you care to join
in ???
I have a friend who got into this Sari pact and got almost obsessed with it.. No signs of her stopping it any time now.. She has crossed more than 150 sarees. Its a delight to watch her on facebook, mentioning in detail about the saree is itself and the choice and style of blouse and the accessories she chooses to go with it.
ReplyDeleteI am a reluctant saree wearer too. I need a lot of preparation before wearing a saree and wouldn't want to get into something like this. Lots of effort.
That reminds me the latest saree i purchased is a Kalamkari and will be wearing it soon..
How I wish I could get obsessed like her, I have written that I will get into a Sari pact, but seriously now I am wondering how on earth will I manage it, because as you said I also need a lot of preparation for wearing a sari ... hmm.. let us see... I am sure you are going to rock that kalamkari :)
DeleteDidn't know about this 'sari pact'. Sounds like fun. I too love wearing a saree. It is such an elegant dress. Wish I could wear it more often..I hope you will fulfill your promise to yourself. How many have you worn so far? It is Onam time and I am so in love with the simple Kerala sarees. I find that Bengal cotton sarees are also beautiful..
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